Heidi Metcalf, Sex and Labor Sells
Kiribaba is a nine year old boy with sad eyes and an ill-fitting t-shirt who lives in a tent in Sri Lanka with his extended family across the street from the Indian Ocean. At night the synthetic tents are too hot, so he sleeps on the cement foundation where their house used to stand. Five years before the tsunami claimed their home, Kiribaba’s mother migrated to the Middle East to work as a domestic laborer. She's not been heard from again.
Her story, and her son's, is common.
The World Bank reports that migrant labor accounts for about 7% of Sri Lankan GDP--unofficial remittances from migrant laborers could double that number. Many Sri Lankans leave their country in search of work because there is none to be found at home.
In Sri Lanka, remittances primarily from housemaids working in the Middle-East are the second leading net foreign-exchange earner after garments and are an important balancing element in the current account, usually offsetting around 60 per cent of the trade deficit." (here)
While there is little to no research that connects human trafficking with migrant women who serve as domestic laborers, I heard anecdotal evidence to the contrary. In addition to their earnings, returning women bring stories of abuse, rape, exploitation, and the suicides of their countrywomen who could not take anymore. Some women, like Kiribaba’s mom, may never return.
I met Kiribaba and his little brother a few weeks ago on a trip to the
Indian sub-continent. I was in search of information about the
dimensions of human trafficking and introductions to local efforts that
combat this evil.
I work for Geneva Global (www.genevaglobal.com); we are a professional
services firm that provides independent research and thoughtful insight
to donors. We look for the most highly effective implementers in the
second and third worlds and recommend their life-changing projects to
our donors for funding. My job within the company is to develop
relationships with our client donors, and as we prepare to launch an
anti-human trafficking fund, I needed to meet the local heroes who have
survived and responded to this evil.
I am fairly well-traveled in the developing world, and so I know that things never quite go as planned. That said, I was still irritated to arrive 3 hours early for a flight to India on SriLankan Air and learn that due to our failure to reconfirm our confirmation, our tickets were sold to someone else! We were stranded in the Colombo airport overnight.
My colleague and I found a “quiet” place on a tiled mezzanine overlooking the boarding area, pulled a few chairs together, and shut our eyes in a determined effort to sleep. While we fought to sleep, a nightmare was organizing below us in the boarding area. Weeping women separated themselves from their husbands and children and lined up to board a flight to Kuwait. Some of the younger women were carefully watched by older men to make sure they boarded the plane. We hypothesized about these suspicious relationships. I imagined that many of these illiterate women were in a similar situation to Kiribaba’s mom. Their search for honest compensation may well end in Kuwait in modern slave-like conditions.
In my yellow plastic chair in the middle of the airport on this island far away from home, I started to contemplate the dimensions of evil that I had heard and read about regarding the hundreds of thousands of men, women and children who are trafficked every year. Those facts and figures took on faces and futures as I watched these women line up in the airport.
I spent the last several weeks traveling in India; a witness to the detritus of evil. Over the next few days, I want you to hear stories of people's daughters and sons who have been sold to work for others, I hope you will bear a little of their sorrows, and finally, I invite you to share with me in my discovery of the destructive power of good.
© 2005, Heidi Metcalf.
Editor's Note: Heidi recommends Gary Haugen's Terrify No More f or further reading on sex trafficking.
This is the first post in Heidi Metcalf's 5 part series on Human Trafficking.
2. Would You Sell Your Daughter?
3. Where is God Amidst Human Trafficking?
Heidi,
Thank you for this. The speech I gave competitively my senior year of college was on trafficking, and I have written a little on the topic myself. Where can I find more of your writing like this? I can be reached at johnwilliamcoleman -at- hotmail.com
Posted by: John | July 27, 2005 at 12:00 PM
Thanks for your comment John. I'm glad you have knowledge and interest in these topics.
Stay tuned to this blog for more writing.
For the thoughts of others, I'd recommend Gary Haugen's new book,Terrify No More, or a book called The Natasha's about sex trafficking in Russia. You may already know these, but if not, good reads.
Thanks again--Heidi
Posted by: Heidi Metcalf | July 28, 2005 at 10:13 AM
Hello Heidi,
I read with interest and appreciation your comments about trafficking. It is evident that you have a genuine concern for the victims of this horrible business. I recently met in Cambodia several young girls who have been rescued from brothels and now are living in a shelter. The youngest one who was only 11 years old said that she wanted to help rescue other girls like her when she grows up and becomes a lawyer.
So, keep up the good work whatever you do for God and for His children.
Kostas Kotopoulos, International Justice Mission, DC
Posted by: Kostas Kotopoulos | July 28, 2005 at 11:41 AM
Kostas, Great to hear from you.
I loved hearing of your great work at IJM's Global Prayer Gathering earlier this year.
Take care--Heidi
Posted by: Heidi Metcalf | July 28, 2005 at 12:49 PM
Thank you for your work, Heidi. Thank you for bringing this issue to the table on this blogsite. I like your terminology of "the destructive power of good". It is bold and powerful and reminds me that "The fear of the Lord is the beginning of all wisdom and all who follow His precepts have good understanding." It seems God has blessed you with a good understanding of His presence in the midst of this severe evil. I see your fear of the Lord in your understanding of the great power of his good....the destructive, fearful, mighty power of good. Thank you for sharing your wisdom on this subject.
Posted by: nancy | July 29, 2005 at 01:03 PM